Throwing your teddy out of the pram is a satisfying thing to do. But only for a very, very short space of time. Then, quite frankly, it’s humiliating. When you lose it I remember a guy I worked with years ago who would ‘lose it’ on a fairly regular basis. His face would go red, his veins would pop out on his neck and he’d erupt like a volcano. He thought he was giving everyone on his team ‘a good kick up the butt’, showing them who’s boss and shaking them up. But he was actua